wish upon a star

marriage- you must marry someone you want to sit next to for the rest of your life 2 years If I could go back I would never change getting married. I love being married to my husband. His hand in mind. Being blinded by his smile. being taken care of. taking care of him. growing as a family. I like marriage. I adore my husband but I would go back and give myself and my husband some tips. never trust your tongue when your heart is bitter - this is so important. it is so difficult to take something back once it is said and it can be haunting to your other half… and bite you in the ass. Marriage is a constant state of giving a little or giving a lot. of meeting in the middle. give 100% every time = marriage isn't easy and if you're only half in and your partner is all in they'll feel that and respond in kind, even fairy tales require work. don't forget that the way you feel loved may not be the way your spouse gives love -I have really struggled with this concept and have to remind myself of this consistently. Your partners love language may be completely different than your own. Identify your spouses language or your marriage will flounder. Plus if you're both trying it means you'll meet somewhere in the middle. Remember the power of flirting or complimenting your spouses strong points, what makes them attractive. Never forget to enjoy the company you find in each other. Growing together can be difficult but putting in effort to have common ground is not. hold your spouse, look for the good, and always put your heart in their hands. you have to trust them with it or you have nothing.